What to Expect
Whether you’re just passing through or joining us from the community, visiting a new church for the first time can be exciting, nerve-racking, or both at once. We’ve all been there, so we’d rather tell you up front what a Sunday with us is like than leave you guessing. Below are lots of questions we get asked — if yours isn’t here, just ask us.
Planning Your Visit
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We meet in the Chapel of the Army and Navy Academy (2549 Ocean St.), at the west end of the campus on the corner of Cypress Ave./Ocean St., overlooking the Pacific. Head toward the water and you’ll see it.
Someone will be at the welcome tent to greet you and hand you a booklet with the order of service, so you’ll know what’s coming next. Maps and driving directions from every direction are on our Find Us page.
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Our beachfront location is a gift most of the year and a challenge on a summer Sunday. Street parking and the public lots nearby are your best bet, so give yourself a few extra minutes June–August; this is why we have back-to-back services those months. Directions and parking notes are on our Find Us page.
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Our church began in Oceanside and continues to serve Oceanside and the surrounding communities. Our meeting place is in Carlsbad near the border, and many of our members come from across the region. We are a Reformed church for all of North County San Diego.
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Morning worship runs about 90 minutes while evening worship is shorter at 50–60 minutes. Nobody is timing you, either — if you need to slip out early, slip out. We’d rather have you for part of a service than not at all.
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No. Come to whatever you’re able to come to, and don’t worry about being counted. That said, we do gather twice on the Lord’s Day, and the second service has its own character: shorter, heavier on singing the Psalms, and preaching aimed at what we believe and why. If you’re wondering why a church would still do that, Pastor Danny explains it on our evening worship page.
For an example of evening service preaching, see Pastor Danny’s series Revelation: Jesus Wins.
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You’re welcome to wear whatever you’d like. There is no set dress code. The pastor often wears clergy attire to set the mood that we’re gathered to meet with God and while a few wear suits and dresses, most wear what they have or are comfortable with. Some of us even have tattoos! We’re in a beach community so the attire is more on the casual side.
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We do meet in an older building, so there is no built-in ramp. It’s just a few inches of step-up, but someone will give you a hand or wheel you in if needed. We also have space down the center aisle where walkers and wheelchairs may be parked.
What Our Worship Is Like
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Christian worship is a meeting with God. When you arrive, you’ll be greeted and given a booklet with our “liturgy” to follow along and participate.
We sing out of a hymnal. Can’t read music? No problem. Singing isn’t about us anyway, so sing out with all your heart to the Lord. We have simple and minimal instrumentation.
The pastor dresses like a traditional pastor.
We pray a lot. We read a lot of the Bible and listen to it explained. We partake of “communion” at the end of every morning service.
You may be used to an evangelical church with lots of lighting, sound, a band, and where it’s almost a show; we believe the Word of God is sufficient and that Jesus is enough. He’s the main event at Oceanside United Reformed Church.
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At its heart, Reformed worship is a face-to-face meeting with God, shaped by his Word and by the pattern Christians have followed for centuries. He calls us out of the world into his presence, speaks to us in Scripture and the sacraments, and we answer him in prayer, song, and offering. That back-and-forth is what we call a “liturgy.” Every church has one; we just tell you ours up front.
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The Psalms make up a large part of our singing. These are the songs God gave his own people, sung for a thousand years while they waited for the Messiah, and now we know he’s come! We also sing hymns both ancient and recent.
We still use a physical hymnal, the Trinity Psalter Hymnal, so we can hold the faith of our fathers and mothers in our hands and pass it to our children.
For accompaniment, we have pianists, guitarists, and cajón from time to time. Here’s why we sing the Psalms.
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Not in the way you’re probably picturing: no band, no screens, no lights, and the instrumentation is simple. We do sing recent songs alongside ancient ones; the question for us isn’t how old a song is but whether it’s filled with “the word of Christ.” If you’re coming from a “contemporary Christian music” church, the sound will be different, especially as you hear the voices of God’s people, old and young. The Christ you’re singing to is the same.
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We typically use the ESV, but guest preachers may read from another translation.
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The Bible is God’s Word and gift to us to show us who He is and what He’s done for us. Since the messages are focused on a passage of the Bible, if you don’t have you own copy, we have copies at our welcome table. Please take one as our gift to you.
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No. We won’t single you out, ask you to raise your hand, or put you on the spot. Sit wherever you’d like and stay as anonymous as you want to be. We’d love to meet you afterward — but that’s your call. Our doors, arms, and hearts are open to you.
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Every Sunday morning. We believe the Lord’s Supper is one of the chief ways the Holy Spirit confirms our faith in Christ, so we’d rather not go a week without it. If you want the longer answer, Pastor Danny has written on why we celebrate weekly communion.
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“Communion” is the ritual meal Jesus gave his followers the night before he died. We call it a “sacrament” because it is a visible sign that seals or assures us of what God tells us in the gospel: “Christ died for you.” At OURC, we celebrate communion every Sunday morning.
If you’re not a believer yet, please abstain. While we get up and go to the front to receive the bread and wine, just observe what we’re doing but after, find the pastor or just talk with your neighbor about what it means to follow Jesus.
We welcome all Christians who confess their sins and trust that Jesus saves them from their sins, have been baptized in the name of the Triune God, and who belong to another Christian church.
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You’re our guest, so please don’t feel obligated to give. While the baskets are going around, just let them pass.
Children and Families
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OURC is a family-friendly environment. We believe that children are a blessing from God and are a vital part of every local church. We don’t offer any “children’s church” as we believe children are a part of the entire church family. Families are encouraged to worship together. We know that having kids in worship with us brings some extra “kid noise” with it – and we like it that way. We love having families with kids of all ages worshiping together with us! We do have several back rows reserved for you or you are free to use the space in the lobby if your kids get restless.
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We don’t have a staffed nursery or a children’s church, due to our location but also because we believe children belong with the whole church family in worship. We do reserve several back rows for families, the lobby is there if a little one needs a moment, and there is a quiet room for nursing mothers. Kid noise doesn’t bother us — we like it that way. More on how we raise our covenant kids.
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Sunday school meets at noon, September through May, between our two services. It’s where we catechize our children — instructing them in the faith they were baptized into — alongside what parents are doing at home. We also have an adult class with Pastor Danny on various theological and practical topics throughout the year.
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Yes. We have a mid-week youth group as well as monthly young adults (post-high school) ministry.
What We Believe
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We belong to the United Reformed Churches in North America (URCNA)—a federation of churches rooted in the Dutch Reformed tradition and the wider Protestant Reformation. We are committed to historic Reformed teaching, Scripture-shaped worship, and pastoral care.
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Not quite, though we’re close cousins. Presbyterians come from the British and Scottish side of the Reformation and confess the Westminster Standards; we come from the Dutch and continental side and confess the Three Forms of Unity — the Belgic Confession, Heidelberg Catechism, and Canons of Dort. We hold the same gospel and sit at the same table with Presbyterian churches in NAPARC. The accent is just different.
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We believe what Christians have always believed, summarized in the Apostles; Nicene, and Athanasian Creeds, and spelled out further in the Three Forms of Unity. Put simply: God is Triune, we’re sinners who can’t save ourselves, Jesus Christ is a complete Savior, and he is offered freely to anyone who will have him. Our What We Believe page lays it out in full.
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No. Many visitors come because they are looking for a church that is reverent, historic, and centered on Christ and the Scriptures. If you are curious, you are welcome to visit, ask questions, and even join our Welcome to a Reformed Church class.
Getting to Know Us
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We are all sinners who have been saved by the grace of Jesus! You’ll find a diverse people at OURC. Despite our different ethnicities, ages, and occupations, we’re here seeking to know and love God better, live in community with each other, and transform the world by sharing the gospel with our neighbors.
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That was most of us at one time! We want to be a place for those who are curious about God but have never felt comfortable in church. We want to be a place where you can learn, ask questions, and wrestle with who God is and what He wants for you. It’s okay if you don’t have it all figured out.
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Nobody bolts for the door. We linger over coffee and conversation, and September through May Sunday school follows at noon. Many weeks we share a hospitality lunch in someone’s home or gather for a picnic overlooking the beach before evening worship — and guests are always included. You can see what a full Lord’s Day looks like here.
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Please do. Every sermon is posted in our sermon archive, so you can hear exactly the kind of preaching you’ll get on a Sunday morning before you ever walk through the door. We preach straight through books of the Bible, verse-by-verse, so pick a series and start anywhere.
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Not at all. Visit as long as you’d like, ask whatever you want, and come to your conclusions on your own timetable. If the day comes that you want to know what membership here involves, that’s a conversation we’re always glad to have.
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Absolutely! We want to be a welcoming environment for all kinds of people who are curious about Christianity or who are seeking to belong to a community of believers.

